💊 💊 HARD PILL TO SWALLOW‼️‼️: Being A Single Parent Is Better Than Being An Abused Parent🤷🏼‍♀️🫶🏼

As Mothers we dream as even little girls to grow up to find a wonderful husband and have the most amazing kids together… and love happily ever after. The works. Stay at home Mom and her comes home and helps you out too… with no complaints… you help him with money by a little home run business… you two are 1/2 1/2 on everything… when one’s battery is low the other feels the gap back and forth and you tough it out as one to raise the percentage if you’re both too low… good kids who you gentle parent… homeschool… afford many fun things and vacation with… healthy lavish meals… a village…, etc… Then despite your daydreaming and fantasizing…, you end up with everything you judged other women for staying with! Him. Yes. You all know him. Or will. It’s all his money. Because you don’t contribute any money because being the soul caregiver, nanny, chef, maid, prostitute of a  pimp because I don’t make the money for the “services”, he does I mean even my home run business… he gets my pay for… because he pays for everything I use in my business anyway… cheats then says you are also a cheater cause you had other relationships when y’all were separated, not living together, and not even communicating at all… like that’s the same?… forcing you to have sex with friends cause you wanna fuck them anyway, physically assaulting you to the point of serious injuries like concussions, for example,…. and pump knots, raping you because it was a hard working husband’s “right”, walking around with a gun at night while the kids slept reminding you of when he said “you try to leave… I will kill you then me… then they’ll have no parents because of you”…, and having people question why it took you so long to leave… then the day when his aggression hurt one of them bodily… then suddenly them being raised without 2 parents was better for them than this. So I plotted up a plan…  a safe way to leave so they didn’t have to see it… then called his bluff alone later to get it over with when they weren’t around because I knew he’d find me WITH them and  I couldn’t chance putting that on them. He didn’t do it. Pussy. Now we have a wonderful man who is everything we deserve. And he’s now everything another woman deserves. Sometimes they’re not just evil, you’re just not compatible. And they can still have both. But sometimes they can’t. And that’s ok too. 1 parent or no parents is better than letting them become the victim. Put your kids first.